Welcome to Real Man Travel Guides!

This site is for guys looking to hook up with the girls in other countries. In each city I've been to I rate your chance of hooking up along with what to do during the day, where to sleep, and what spots to hit at night. In each country's overview page I also give a description on the girls. For advice on how to pick girls up, take a look at my game tips newsletter, which complements my book Bang.

How To Get Laid While Traveling In Colombia

I just finished my Colombian fuck-guide that teaches you how to get with Colombian girls in Colombia. It shares tips to use during day and nighttime pickup with lines both in English and Spanish. I also teach you about Colombian women and the adjustments you’ll have to make compared to the sloppy Western women you’re probably used to.

The ebook is free to download for a limited time. To get your copy, visit the official website. Paperback copy is also available.

Posted on July 8 2010 in Colombia, General Advice, South America

My New Travel Book Is Out!

A Dead Bat In ParaguayFinally, my follow-up to Bang has been published. It’s called A Dead Bat In Paraguay, and is a memoir about my six-month adventure through South America where I searched for life meaning and foreign women. If you’ve ever thought about quitting your job and taking a long trip to exotic places (while trying to bang the local women in the process), then I think it’s for you. Here is the website…


I tried to make the website fun and interesting by tossing in important life and travel quotes I’ve stumbled on.

At the top of my new book’s web site you’ll find a two-minute overview of the book. You’ll also find a synopsis and a link to three excerpts, things I hope will help you decide if you think the book is for you or not. And like with Bang, you can get your money back if you happen to not like it (impossible I say!).

Video Introduction

Check out two reviews written by bloggers who’ve read the book.

If you’re a fan of Bang then I think you’ll like A Dead Bat In Paraguay because I go into detail about how it’s like to pick up in foreign countries. It’s not a straight-up textbook like Bang, but you’ll walk away with a lot of tips and hopefully a more enlightened perspective.

Posted on September 22 2009 in General Advice

Travel Advice

The travel section over at my forum has been pretty active lately. Here’s a few of the active topics:

A few guys have already met in person because of the forum.

Posted on March 9 2009 in General Advice

How To Increase Your Travel Motivation

There are a lot of guys who want to go somewhere but the days turn into months and they never bother to do more than basic research. Their motivation isn’t strong enough to make the plunge, even though the destination they are flirting with may offer the best time of their life. The way to increase this motivation involves the walls of your bedroom.

If you’ve traveled before and have taken pictures, select the pics that make you smile the most and get them printed at a large size. Place them on your wall in a high visible area. This serves as a “reminder” at what you could be missing.

The second option is to put up some travel posters. A good part of my travel motivation comes from having a world map on the wall next to my door. It reminds me of the world’s size and how I’m missing out by not hitting the road.

World Explorer Map
World Explorer Map Art Print

Two other posters I have:

Rio de Janeiro
Rio de Janeiro


A third option is to use a travel themed calendar bought from your local bookstore.

The main idea is to be remind yourself every day that you need to make a plan, stick with it, and then buck up and buy those flight tickets.

For more ideas on places to go besides the guides here, check out the Travel section of my forum. Iceland has recently received very good reviews.

Posted on September 11 2008 in General Advice